Prepared, not scared.

Does your daughter listen to you guidance
 when it come to keeping her safe?

Do you wish she understood the dangers
 out there?

Thru Role Model ‘Momming’ we work on
our mother-daughter relationships as we
make the choice to become what we want
 for our daughters.


Introspection is the key to self-growth. It opens the doors to not just truly finding yourself, but improving yourself. Our relationships blossom as we choose to see our authentic selves, blemishes and all.

Prepared, not scared! The peace of mind and confidence that comes from protecting ourselves and our loved ones is amazing!
No need for years of self-defense classes! Let me help you be intentional and educating, equipping and empowering yourself in personal protection!

Refuse To Be A Victim® is a two to four hour crime prevention seminar, which provides practical information geared toward awareness and avoidance of criminal confrontation. As a certified instructor I help you better understand criminal thinking and provide tips on maximizing home, automobile, telephone, technological, and personal security.  


I love blogging about confidence building – it affects every area of our life. Your relationship with yourself and every one in your life!


Shoulder to Shoulder Parenting

As we dive into choosing to become the woman we would choose for our daughter’s role model – we grow ourselves and our relationships with our daughters!
Shoulder to shoulder.

The Big 3 E’s! Let’s Educate, Equip and Empower ourselves to greater things! 

  • Personal Protection
  • Mother/Daughter Relationships
  • Introspection
  • Confidence Building
  • Safety for all.
Getting over your self is very similar to finding oneself. And getting there takes genuine introspection and self-awareness. And guess what the good news is? We can model this for our daughters as we empower ourselves!
Cate, Blessed Reject


Escaping Victim Mentality in Momming

Eradicate Victim Mentality in Your Daughters Escaping victim mentality in momming means in ourselves and our girls. Why does victim mentality has no place in raising strong women? To raise dynamic daughters we must eradicate victim mentality. A victim mentality? What does that mean?  Blame. Complain. Make excuses Being a victim means that you blame

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